Tell my girlfriend about sex with my affair

On Monday, May 16, 2022, I stayed at home and already felt a longing for Mara in the morning. The first thing I did before getting up was to text Mara and ask her how the date with the other guy went. She didn't reply very quickly. It wasn't until a few hours later, when I went for a walk through the Borsum fields, that my cell phone vibrated in my pocket. I finally received a voice message from Mara, which I had been waiting for the whole time.

"He didn't smell good at all. He didn't smell or anything. I just didn't like the way he smelled," Mara recounted how she noticed the guy walking as the wind blew from his direction towards her.

"And spent hours just talking about himself. I want to tell him no, but I don't know how."

After listening to the four-minute voice message, I also replied with a voice message a few steps further along the country lane.

"That was the third date with him. Tell him as soon as possible that you have no feelings for him before he gets his hopes up and you cause him unnecessary pain."

On Monday evening, I spoke to Jule on the phone and told her everything that had happened.

"And then I licked her," I told her on the phone, hoping that my mother and sister were already asleep.

"Sasha, I don't really want to know," she replied calmly, but with a slight sadness that you could only hear when you've been with someone for a long time.

"How was the Wales weekend? Did you have a fling?" I asked Jule with my typical touch of humor, which I always liked to add, especially when the situation between us was emotionally tense. Jule laughed.

It had happened. She and Shinshu had slept together. Several times. When Jule told me about their sex, I didn't feel any jealousy at all. It felt like a good friend was telling me about her latest sex story, not the love of my life.

"Do you think this incident will strengthen our relationship?" I asked her curiously.

"Yes, I firmly believe it will."